Abby's Eye

Most of you know that Abigail fell when she was young and damaged her right eye. This happened when she was a little over a year old. The last time Ron came to visit (Abby and Lily's biological mother), Abby came home from visiting with her with a new story about her eye. We had been previously told that she fell on a stick, but now Abby says that she ran into a hammer that was hanging on her grandpa's belt. This story seems likely to me, because she is always running around without watching where she is going. Which ever story is true, she is blind in that eye, and that is a fact.

We have taken Abby to an eye specialist in Cambodia, and after two seconds of looking into it with a light, he told us that she would never be able to see out of it, and that the stitches should be left alone unless they caused her problems. Obviously, Kelsi and I did not want this to be true. We wanted there to be some surgery that could be done, so that she could see out of that eye again. We let it go, but when we found out that we were going to get to come to the States, we decided to go ahead with a second opinion.

We went to see Dr. Susie sometime last week, and did not take pictures, because it slipped my mind. It was funny, because during the pre-check up, one of the assistants was going through the motions and came to a test with some glasses, and she said, "Have you ever been to a 3D movie?" I replied, "Yes, but she doesn't like them, because the glasses don't work for her." The assistant looked perplexed, so I added, "You have to have both eyes working to see 3D..." She looked kind of embarrassed and said, "Well, I guess we won't do that test..." Yeah... probably not.

Once we got in to see Dr. Susie, I was excited to ask the question... but before we got there, we found out that Abby is nearsighted. She will be getting glasses eventually, but not quite yet. The doctor told us that she would love to slap some glasses on her to protect her good eye, but she is still a little young for glasses. What a shock! Abby is going to wear glasses for the rest of her life!? I guess I couldn't give her my great sight, since she is technically not biologically mine... oh well.

We finally got to ask about Abby's blind eye, and Dr. Susie took a look inside. The doctor in Cambodia missed that Abby does still have part of her iris left, so she could be eligible for a cornea transplant. I was really excited, but then the bad news came. Even though she could technically get the transplant, her brain has already developed for three years with one eye, and there is a slim chance that it would adjust to having two eyes. Dr. Susie said that it would be hard to find a surgeon who would take the chance on it. She is still young enough to maybe pursue it, but we would need to be stateside with insurance before we tried anything with it.

It is looking like Abby is just going to have one eye. She is already quite adjusted to it, and most of the time, I forget that she is blind in that eye. We are super grateful to Dr. Susie for the check up. She was great with Abby and answered all of our questions with grace and kindness. And on top of it all, she gave us the visit for free. Such a blessing to our family! When/If we get back for good, she will definitely be our eye doctor.

Well that is your update on Abby's eye. Hopefully it answered some questions you might have about her vision and what we could do about it. We get asked all the time, "Will she ever be able to see out of that eye?" Like most things, God could work a miracle and give her vision... or He could show His glory in her through her testimony of a life with one good eye. Just as in the story with the man born blind, Jesus explained that it was not about sin that he was born blind, but so that the glory of God might be shown in him. I believe the same thing for Abby. We all have a choice to live for the glory of God, and I believe that her heavenly Father has a plan for her life that will give her an opportunity to show His glory in an amazing way. That is my prayer for her at least.

BecauseHeLives,
The Bergens.